Wednesday, May 09, 2007

Gifts...

Last night, I went to the year-end performance of our community's high school choir. The concert choir won superior ratings at the state level this year--the first time this has happened in ten years--so they are really an excellent group filled with talented teenagers. I went primarily to hear my niece, Lori, as well as McKenna's new boyfriend (and, after all, this is about the closest we come to Culture in our little town of Hueytown; lol). They both just have amazing voices and it was so nice to enjoy the gifts that these "kids" have at such a young age. To hear 16-year-olds sing like angels is really quite amazing!

At one point, I leaned over to my mother-in-law and said that I am just in awe of musical ability. And later on, I commented that if I had just enough of Lori's talent to fit in my pinky finger I'd be happy. I love music so much, but I don't have any musical ability whatsoever. I sing in the shower, I sing very loudly in the car, and I sing loudly in church (and to heck with worrying that I'm disrupting others with my singing voice; I just sing out loud anyway!). I just SO wish that I had musical gifts (singing, playing an instrument, something!); if I could request a new gift or talent it would probably be a musical one!

All this got me to thinking about the gifts that we have. I truly believe that every person on this earth has some sort of special girt. For some people, it's music. For others, it's the ability to truly listen to another person. For others, it's the gift of making a person feel welcome in their home. For others, it's a special knack for mathemetics (I absolutely didn't get that one either!). For others, it's a gift for humor.

I think it's such a shame that there are children raised with no concept of their own special gifts or uniqueness. It's our job as adults to make children feel valued and appreciated for what is special about them! And I know plenty of adults who don't really have the self-esteem or understanding to know that they have a special gift for something.

So, I know that I didn't get any sort of musical talent. And I know that there are other things I'm not gifted at (Two that immediately come to mind: I'm not organized and I'm not a nurterer). But... I know I have the gift of creativity, a gift for teaching, a gift of encouragement, and a gift of optimism. I may wish I had the gift of musical ability, but those other gifts are just as important.

What are you good at? What gifts do you have? (Do any of you sing??) If you don't think you are necessarily gifted at anything, think again! Everyone has a special gift... a special purpose... a special reason for being here.

Let's encourage one another and celebrate our gifts!

16 comments:

Anonymous said...

What a great post Cheryl! And very timely!! I agree wholeheartedly about fostering our children's gifts..part of the reason I homeschooled for so many years.

One of my gifts and downfalls is that I love to do for others.

Dawn Bibbs said...

What a wonder post, Cheryl.

I too love to sing and love all kinds of music. When I was little and when we lived in NY, my dad use to sing on a Cotillion...sort of a corner barber shop singing group. He use to take me to Radio City Music hall with him to practice. So I'm sure that's where my ear and love for music came from. I can hold a note pretty well, but I'm scared to death to sing in front of others.

As far as my "gifts" go, I've only "tested" for a few in Sunday School class. And found that I have the Spiritual gifts of Mercy, Giving and one more that I can't remember. But my earthly gifts would have to be the gift of humor, giving and creativity. I've been told that I have other gifts as well, but they escape me at the moment. (so that should tell us that it's definitely not the gift of memory, huh? LOL)

Thanks for sharing your gifts with us today.

Unknown said...

That is such a nice post, and it's so true. I don't know what i'm good at but I always find things to tell my daughter than she is good at and keep encouraging her.

Veronica said...

Hey Cheryl,

Have you checked out the making memories blog...
They are giving away a huge polka dot package to 5 random people.


http://makingmemories.typepad.com/

Loreluca said...

Awsome posting, Cheryl! I was given the gift of singing, too, but I guess just like everything else, with age my voice is nowhere to be found. I used to be the soloist at every single event at school, from 1st grade to college, but I never pursued it beyond that. In all honesty, I don't think I'd like my kids to do so, either! Just for school and church, but never anything else. Lots of other far more important talents to work on than this!

Missy Glave said...

I love this post. Often we over look our "God given talents" ... we should all be thankful for the gifts He has given us.

I'm not a singer ... mmmm ... makes me wonder ... what is my gift?? This is something I will have to think about.

Mississippi Songbird said...

Great post today..




TAG! YOU"RE ONE OF MY SEVEN....

I am tagging you to tell us seven things that we don't know about you, and for you to tag seven people..
This is for GOOD LUCK...

Thanks. and bunches of hugs...

Jolene George said...

I am in awe of people who have the gift of song and any musical talent what so ever. I however am a terrible singer and I know it. At least I have a true appreciation for those who can.
My gifts...
*artistic and creative
*great cook and love to feed people
*decorator
*I LOVE to do service for others. It benefits me as much as it does them because I love the way it feels to help other people. I genuinely care for people and I think the kindness in my heart shows through to the outside.

Michelle said...

I wish I could sing...or play an instrument! I am not musically gifted at all!

Susie Q said...

What a sweet and blessed post Cheryl.

YOU a gift to all of us...you are bright and funny and a wonderful writer! A super Mom and wife.
You are an inspiration.

Hugs,
Sue

Brown English Muffin said...

I know just what you mean about loving music or rather loving to hear kids sing....it's like you can close your eyes and their melodies lift you away.

Bare said...

Cheryl, that was an absolutely WONDERFUL post! It's so true, we do our children a terrible injustice by NOT complimenting them, and focusing on THEIR special talents, instead of what society tells them they "should" be good at!

Each person has something that is unique for them, and God blessed each of us with our own, unique talent. Mine is humor, and helping to lift others up-- to make them feel good about themselves. I'm so thankful that I'm able to do that, and help others! Thanks so much for posting this!

*hugs and love*

Adriann said...

Great post and something to think about. My son has an amazing gift of music. He plays drums and can pick up any tune. I can't wait to see how his gift develops once he starts his performing arts school.

Like you, I love music-- but can't sing or play. I have a gift of listening to others and optimism. My friends and family always come to me for advice because I always see the glass as half full. At one point in my life I was thinking about becoming a psychologist.

Nice post to reflect upon. Thanks for posting.

Blessings,
Adriann

TK Angels said...

I love your post!! I totally area with helping our children undertand their gifts. I knew my daughter was smart and needed to go to college. She is caring and a great mother at the age of 23. Must have done something right? *smile*

You are a very creative person, a kind person, a person of God, a fantastic mother and great wife. You are an inspiration to us all.

I cannot sing. I love to help others (especially the underdog) and am a loyal friend. I guess you can say that is one of my gifts.

Take care,
Love,
Terri

Adrienne said...

Great post!!!! I think my "best" gift is playing the piano. My kids play too!! I like to sing, but umm, don't know if others would like it too lol

AngelConradie said...

what a fabulous post cheryl! it does take a lot of work to nurture talent in our children, and a lot of parents don't even think about it, assuming thbeir child will pick it up as they go along sorta thing.
i was one of the lucky ones. my talent is probably drawing and being able to plan and organise. my damien is immensely artistic and creative and can remember things for ages!